Lipstick Pig

But the THIS Always IS a Pig
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It seems this popular word, "You Can Put Red to lips On A Pig, But the THIS Always IS A Pig", does the round ones - and causing completely a disturbance - in the presidential campaigns, American and current. According to the "the Urban Dictionary", this sentence is the slang for when someone tries to dress something to do it appears better than it is really.

Yes, the it is true. Do not import if the this is red one to lips, the perfume or a dinner jacket, a pig always is a pig. Now, before the animal people of rights begin sending by e-mail me allows me informer publicly that - I have nothing of the all against the pigs!

Nevertheless, it stimulated me to think about the manner that the people communicate. You see, the people phednomednalment succeed work constantly on their "people competences". In the popular motivations and success system, The Strength of Concentration, the author wrote that...

"The first, and the most critical, the sector is the relations that you have with of others just like what and how you COMMUNICATE in these relations".

The manner in which communicate you, not only

#1) that you say, c'est-a -dire, your word choice, #2) how you say it, and #3) the position or the circumstance in which communicate you, or you can do (more) succeeded OR does you to appear or perceived to be just as the "the poor pig" in our first example - all are dressed to appear themselves better than the this is!

And, with that to the spirit, here the dish to take key of my history of motivation. Conscious Etre of what I refer myself to as "the colored metaphors". You can know them also as the dreaded "the words of four letters!

For example, last week I met a potential customer, that I will call "Karen" that despite his current statute in life injected these "the colored metaphors" completely liberal in the conversation. Now, I do not speak of the "hulls" or "resumed" as the examples, I talk about the "queen mother" of all words of four letters among of others. Yes, the it was the the F nuclear BOMB!

The truth is, without the quality communication with other that you relate to on a daily basis, themselves they are at your job place, in your personal life or to the commercial center, you cannot attract the founding pads that take to the success.

The poor communication, especially while using "the colored metaphors and the words of four letters", affects the manner that of others perceive, understands and you to react. The people that communicate more better are the a that it most successful. Look at any of the people succeed that you know and study the manner that they communicate. You will see immediately that by their word choice, of language of body and of tonality formulates for them for the success. You will notice also as they listen more than they speak. When the this is the time for them to speak, they guarantee that they TAKE THE RESPONSABILITE for the somewhere else to understand that they say.

And, it has not any importance that your environment or the current circumstance is. If you are on the road to the success or already believe (the most probably inexactly) succeeded you. It has not any importance if you already have a top of financial comfort, an education of university or university, a dear watch, a car of luxury or you or your spouse possesses a matters. The cold one, the truth lasts is that the person that does not take the responsibility for the words they choose lacks check automatically, disciplines automatically and will do quickly and absolutely to lose the people respect that they treat.

Period.

Conscious Etre and look at these simple competences nevertheless criticize and interpersonal everyday as they will take you far alongside your way to the success. To watch out in order not to to take the "Ready, the Fire, the Objective" the approach in to communicate with of others. Manage your thoughts while developing your check automatically and oneself it mastery. There is a Chinese Proverb that reads, "A gem cannot be polite without the friction, or a man perfected without the processes". Practice everyday, and soon you will make an impression powerful and positive, (without the red one to lips or a dinner jacket), anywhere you are on your quest for the personal development, the success or oneself the improvement.